COUPLE SINCERE LOVE

Are you sure PEACE LOVE THE COUPLE?

Sign of the couple sincere love:

One day you asked of her, "Do you love me?" Watch him is unique and difficult to understand. Who would not love my body, children who are seven people that may not be evident to? Actually what you have achieved as a couple is still far from the goal of marriage. Do not be satisfied with your present happiness, but you must remain vigilant, so you can both less sincere love.

Sincerity can fade little by little because of their negative attitudes. The days of the wedding was like seeing the fall of the 'snow ball', citing a bad incident that made both partners. Snowball was increasingly large and eventually destroy everything built. No more sincere love one another, each had to give up and let the poor attitudes to haunt the couple themselves.

Lost due sincerity, so no thanks to life. Fading love, your heart cry: My husband does not love anymore or does not love her anymore. Strange but true, there is a wife who told her husband to find a new one just because lazy husband to treat red. There are also tired of living with a husband who then broke away from the family, busy with career, I want to be involved with the affairs of his wife and children supposedly always troublesome. Marriage is indeed still exist but are not unhappy, lost sweetness, looking fragile and split.

Therefore, every couple must look into each other's hearts, do still exist sincerity in love? These signs were sincere in marriage.

1. Love and hate for Allah

Integrity must be maintained, sown in the hearts and do not let off. Husband and wife who sincerely seek for God's love and hate for Allah. They care about the 'marriage concept to worship'. For example when to treat red not because you loved her husband or fear he seeks another, but with the intention of seeking the pleasure of Allah as. 

Husband must accept that God gives the right to the wife, if he keeps the manner of the wife he had been unfaithful to God. 

Sin and merit should be the guardian of love all the time. They fear betrayed spouse for fear of Allah SWT. They respect each other and take care of your heart as God, therefore God united the two.

As he says, which means:

"If you had spent all the (wealth) which is in the earth you could not have united their hearts. But Allah has united them. He is Mighty, Wise. "(Surah Al-Anfal: 63)

2. Difficult or easy, unchanging love.
Difficult or easy, healthy or sick, suffering or lived happily together with ease. Sometimes what we think is a fortune can be brought disaster as well as something that the eye is unfortunate but it brings blessings in the end. While difficult, husband and wife teamed up the challenge to succeed. Once successful, their attitude changed. Husband began looking for a new branch, the wife was a pretender to the temperament OKB (upstart).

If the patient is tested by their poverty but when tested with a wealth rarely afford to be patient. Many are outdated and faith to live again remember God when life is difficult. Quran has recorded the punishment for those who engage in immoral acts when life is full of fun. 

"When they disregarded the warnings that had been given to them, we are also open all the gates of everything to them, until, when they rejoiced in what they were given, We seized them immediately. And then they fell silent despair. "(Surah Al-An'am verse 44)

Sadly or happily they never change, cultivating love with faith and piety to Allah SWT.

3. Together or alone, in truth.
Have you ever seen a man who appeared in front of his wife learned, courteous yet polite. But when she was alone then see spots, wild desires blackguard tub. Wife also what's the difference, if with husband likes praise, but behind her husband always libelous, scandalous behavior of the husband in the event gossip here and there. 

However, for couples who sincerely no hypocrisy in themselves. If mutual love of glory, as was the passionate longing of the soul. Freezes the longer separate the more honesty in their hearts. Honest and faithful to your partner can be proved only by people who feel the presence of God. Whenever he is in fact God sees, record and book of angels always count counting blessings and sins. 

Their own insecurity or without hearts that feel the eyes of Allah. The Prophet said, which means:

"Surely earth to witness against all human actions, whether male or female, they are doing on it. Earth says: He has done this and this and so on that day. This is reported by the earth. "(Narrated by Imam Al-Tirmidhi)

All around us to witness the talk by oral, felt by the heart, the mind and thought-breathe exhaled by lust

 Reality in life experience:

 I agree with the opinion mentioned by the Hon Dr. Juanda. What is being done in our life husband and wife is based on obedience commands Commandments. Do something in order to please Allah and refrain from doing anything evil for fear of God. 

If these principles in the surf boat conjugal household and keeps His promises of love that clang and began in acceptance of marriage first time, it is definitely going on forever, because each one will take care of themselves to always obey the order of Allah. When this happens the love of husband and wife but faithful and accurate at all times regardless of  sadness and happy. 

My wife and I have personally experienced this, because at the beginning of our marriage my knee pain, the wife who always help and take care of me. After more than 20 years of marriage the wife was sick (paralyzed side of the body) I can accept it as it is considered to be the provision of God. So now I keep sick wife of nearly 15 years. (Help sundries wife in daily life) but our love remains vibrant and happy all the time. In fact, we felt as a newly married couple, always friendly and loving.

In conclusion the issues raised by Dr. have permission if the love of husband and wife is based on faith and piety. When there is fear and obey God's command, each husband and wife will make sure they always keep themselves from engaging in acts of wrath of God;

Wallau’alam.