My intention to write this articles when I read one article related to “Long-Term Care
For the Stroke Patient in Family Home Care”. Written by Kathy Henley Haugh,
PhD, RN. The author relates the
exemplary care of an older woman who sustained a stroke at the age of 84. The
family provided care for this stroke survivor admirably until her death 10
years later. The woman’s disabilities included right-sided paralysis,
dysphasia, dyspraxia, and aphasia, as well as complications specific to enteral
tube feedings, seizure activity, and urinary elimination. In the United States,
approximately 780,000 Americans suffer a new or recurrent stroke each year. The
median survival time after a first stroke for individuals age 6069 years is 6.8
years for men and 7.4 years for women; for those older than age 80 years, the
median survival time is 1.8 years for men and 3.1 years for women. Fifty
percent to 70% of stroke survivors regain functional independence; 15-30% are
permanently disabled.
Due to the statistic
given, I keen to write my experience as care giver to my stroke wife for more 15 years, through my
experienced and with the ability to adopted the patient as the responsibility
of husband to take care and give her full support either emotionally and her
daily living need. On other word caring by holistic approach able to speed up
the healing process and changes to recover back to normal position is more and
I manage to give her the hope for future life and she has recover up to 90 %
back to normal condition.
My key factor to be a
successful caregiver is by put intention
to take care my wife as the responsibility of a husband that been lay down by
my religious marriage guideline. One of the responsibility is to take care wife
health and he happiness. As a husband I am committed to take care her health
after 20 years of our marriage she give her sacrifice to give birth my kids for
seven times. This prove that my wife is a good wife and has no complain of
suffering herself to carry our baby for the time of 9 months before gift birth.
I am so sympathy with her sacrifice and able to face pain and sorrow just to
please her husband desire.
When she at the age
of 42, suddenly she was attack by stroke (AVM) and as a result she was paralyze
for half body on the right side. After warded for 30 days she was discharge
from hospital and started the home care. At the first day at home she cannot
walk, very hard to speak and need help for her daily living need (DLN). I have
to do everything by myself due to the incident when I hired the maid she always
compliant and not satisfied with the service given. At that time I am still
working as Senior Manager at Private
Company. Every day when I went home she always cry and tear dropped at her
chick. Thus make me worried and to avoid
her become more depress and tension I made a decision to let go the maid and
put the intention to take care of her
DLN by myself and assist by my children.
For the first year as
caregiver I manage to settle my task successfully. As the time passed for third
year. Everything was change, at most her attitude and moral been rivers to be
depress and easily be a bad mood person.
This made me so tired to take care of her desire and attitude and make
me bore and start coming of negative talk in my mind that my wife is a burden
to my life. This the time that is very critical that I am facing and there was
a desire to marriage for second wife. But when I made my personal analyze If I
do so that cannot settle my problem if not lucky may be a new problem will be
arise and will make my position more stress and possibly will effect my future
life, So I made determination to
continue my responsibility as husband and continue as caregiver to my wife.
From that date I made
a paradigm shift by revise my personal effort and put intention that all the
problem facing by me is a test form His Mercy God Allah. I have to face all the
test with passion and pray to Allah for His help and pleasance and if I am
success to face the challenge given, the reward is great at the hereafter. The
reward that every body desire and hope is the get into heaven. With thus
intention I manage to face all the pain and sorrow and with patience as the
time goes, it become part of my daily routine.
After 15 years as
caregiver I am adopted all the skill and knowledge what I am have what I am called
as holistic approach treatment for stroke patient. Alhamdulillah (thank God) my
wife able to get batter healing process
and now she able to recover back nearly 90% back to normal. As at current
status she manage to walk without stick, able to do herself for HLN and the
most important is that she has recover back to normal person in term her
thinking, memory and very confident for her future life.
The latest
development with my wife performance, one doctor whose treat my wife admire my
effort to give special care to able my wife healing process go smooth and he
endorse my method of treatment is better to explore more for future method of
prolong sickness patient. As result of my success he appoint me as a consultant
to his pilot project to set up a center for holistic treatment.
In this articles I
wrote my experience in phases. First phase is the practice that I am applied to
lead my marriage and my family. These practices able me to strength my love
with my wife and we are happy for 35 year of our marriage and get together
peacefully.
The second phase of
the story is about the challenge, pain and sorrow I am facing for 15 years till
now when my wife was attack by stroke. My ability to pass through all the pain
and sorrow with patience and able to continue my marriage and also able to ease
the healing process that my wife able to gain back her health and stay with
love, joyful and has an optimistic future in life.
As caregiver for the
first one year is the time I learnt a lot about taking care our lover who need
aide nearly 100 % of her daily living need. As the time goes on, she has regain
her movement, the mental healing is more improve and she manage to talk as
normal person. During this time it happen in the range of 3,4, and 5th
year, Thus the critical and hard time for to face the attitude of stroke
survivor which are very sensitive, fussy, moody that made me as caregiver very
stress to handle. Thus the time I am nearly give up to take care of her. During
this critical situation I has to use all
my soft skill regarding, motivation, communication, interpersonal, time
management and reactive thinking, Alhamdulillah with patient I mange to resolved all the hardship
and problems facing and finally with the blessing of God, I able to prolong my
responsibility to take care my stroke wife with successfully gain her healing
process and till now after 15 years time, she war recover back her confident,
cheerful live and the most important
achievement is that she can adopted the handicap of her right arm and leg to
keep on the live as normal person, thus tons of experience I learnt in the time
frame of 15 years, is a valuable knowledge that need to share with publics, who
are now caring their spouse as the stroke survivor. By writing my experience in
this article all our friend over the world can get the basic info
as guidance to those newly get the title of a caregiver of stroke survivor.
I hope my experience
which I am recorded in this articles will be one of the source for those faces
the same problem or those who has to take care stroke survivor. Hopefully this articles
can help those facing depress and stress as a care giver to try my method of
healing process to recover back the stroke patient and also to manager him or
herself as caregiver which may be facing stress and depress situation .God
blessing.
Emotional Factors In Recovery After
Stroke
Following a stroke, my wife become anxiety, fear, and
frustration at the first day she recover and bring back home. Initially she suffer of confusion that makes
it impossible to do the simplest mental tasks. She often feel helpless and
dependent, and her sense of self-worth is diminished. I as caregiver and all
family members are important to understand the survivor's limitations and allow
an appropriate time for recovery. Self-worth, confidence and enjoyment of life
will gradually return. My wife as first few month her healing progress very
slow. I as caregiver and responsible husband has to be very patient to look
after her and need a comprehensive care.
What I am try so much
to give encouragement to her. It is an
extremely important motivating factor for stroke survivors. Caregivers should
avoid being critical. So what I am doing, try to accept that my wife been
attacked by stroke is plan by the Greater Creator Allah. The happening is
planned by Allah for the good of our self. Avoid any nagging tends to upset and
anger stroke survivors, and discourages rather than encourages effort.
Determination is essential in overcoming the effects of a
stroke. Patients must be willing to adapt to the disability and be convinced
that by therapy they will improve. It has to be stressed that the will to
recover does pay off. Nothing helps raise the body and spirit of the survivor
of a recent stroke like seeing how their own hard work helps their
recovery. the hope for her recovery is
merging by 6 month duration of home rehabilitation. She start to gain confident
to do herself with minimum movement.
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Set attainable goals the road to recovery is built of simple achievements.
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Involve the survivor in daily activities and
routines.
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Encourage independent activities, while
recognizing the survivor's limitations.
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Try to maintain social contacts within the
family and community.
I am practiced the following guidelines that encourage a
positive recovery.
1.
Set
attainable goals the road to recovery is
built of simple achievements.
What I am doing is to
put the hope that my wife will recover back to normal position if we pray to
the God, Allah The Mercy. My wife was coaching to perform pray and put the hope
to Allah that the recovery process is going to improve her disability and
handicap. I support and courage her to do the exercise even a simple movement
of finger, leg, tight and so forth. By doing this she will be more confident to
do the movement of her muscle and bit by bit the improvement and change occur.
This bring her confident to the future live. This is the most effective inside
booster to speed up her healing process. Alhamdulillah the change is great and
her achievement very tremendous.
2.
Involve
the survivor in daily activities and routines.
The most important
thing try to gain back patient confident, the disability of right arm and leg
after stroke attack was limited her movement and make her difficulties to do
her daily living need (DLN). For the few week I am doing all her DLN but after
six moth she recovery slightly better, then she manage to do herself a few
activity such as drinking and eating. I am keeping coaching and giving
motivation to her that her healing for recovery are better and faster. Thus
giving her inner self confidence and to achieve better will and hope for her to
be independent. Alhamdulillah it seem the strategy was successful and able her
to heal faster.
3.
Encourage
independent activities, while recognizing the survivor's limitations.
I give encourage to my
wife to be independent in doing her DLN. A few accident happen when she drop
her glass and the glass break. She was so frustrated and always said that her
now to be disable person that can do nothing, But I and my family try to motivate
her that she has to learn again to do herself with certain limitation. The
process what we called as the new born child has to learn new thing every day
to able her be an independent person as the child grow up, By giving fully
support and motivate her every day it seem batter improvement for her to gain
recover confident to be independent person, Allhamdulillah after one year we
did this process she has acquire more healing for arm and leg movement and able
to do small thing by herself. Now the time pass over 15 year, she manage to do a light job at home such as washing
cloths by washing machine, washing plate and glass and other kitchen ware. She manage to take
bath by herself.
The Effects of Stroke
Different sides of the brain deal with different areas of
human intellectual functioning. Generally speaking, brain damage due to a
stroke causes the kinds of problems noted below. However, it is important to
note that brain injury in left-handed individuals results in effects that are
exactly the opposite of those explained below.
Left Brain Injury
(right-sided weakness (hemiplegia) )
Those with left brain injury and a paralyzed right side are
more likely to have problems with speech and language. Apart from language
problems, these individuals tend to be cautious, hesitant, anxious and
disorganized when faced with an unfamiliar problem. Many of those with right
hemiplegia need frequent assurance that they are doing okay, with lots of
immediate positive feedback. Breaking tasks down into steps and practicing
often will aid learning.
This happen to my wife, nearly one month after stroke attack,
my wife have problem with speech, she will take some time to say a words,
neglect to talk to people. Most of the day she like to be silent. She also happen
to be very slow memory and take some time to recognize something, even myself
whose take care of her every day she take a few minutes to recognize at the
time in the morning when I meet her. These situation slowly gone after one
month and she able to go back to normal after one year. The role of caregiver
at this point is very crucial. He must be patient and must put intention try
his best to help patient to recover their memory by consistently communicate
with stroke survivor. Beside that caregiver must invoke to God to get His help
for faster healing process of the stroke survivor. Alhamdulillah by keep on
doing this my wife able to regain back her speech and memory after one and half
year.
Right brain injury
(left hemiplegia)
People often assume that if a stroke has not affected
language and speech, a stroke survivor is not impaired. This is not true! Left
hemiplegia may result in problems with spatial-perceptual tasks - the ability
to judge distance, size, position, rate of movement, form and how parts relate
to wholes. People with severe spatial-perceptual deficits may have more trouble
with self-care than those with equally severe language deficits. They may not
be able to read a paper - not because they can't read, but because they lose
their place on the page. They tend to have a behavioral style that is too quick
and impulsive, and behave in a way that makes overestimating their abilities
easy. They are often unaware of their deficits, and may think themselves
capable of tasks they are not-driving for instance, which even with minor
spatial-perceptual disabilities can be dangerous.
One-side neglect
Many stroke survivors have visual field defects - up to half
their visual field (what they can see with both eyes) is, in simplest terms,
not there. This is usually compensated for by turning the head. However, some
individuals, usually those with left hemiplegia, have what ranges from a
reduced to no sense that their left side exists, or that anything or anybody
approaching from that side exists. This is called neglect, and is potentially
isolating for these individuals.
Depression
Depression resulting from a stroke is one of the most
difficult factors for a spouse and family to deal with. A certain amount of
crying, though upsetting to the family, may be a natural and normal emotional
response to the stroke survivor's greatly changed circumstances. However,
chemical changes caused by stroke may result in deeper depression and apathy,
with the survivor appearing passive and detached, a state that will usually
improve with time.
This situation is
absolute true happen to my wife, she most likely to cry every times my relative
come to see her, some time she do not want to talk. What I am doing to help
her, by communicate to her regularly every day, keep on talking and give her
confident that the situation happen just for a few month, she must have the
strong will to try herself to regain back her ability to move, to talk, to walk
and so forth.
One of the method I
used to ease and release her depression by giving her articless of religious
talk and faith. I am coaching her to
make her more knowledge about the religious faith and thought. When my
wife gain more knowledge of religion faith and thought, she more patient and
able to face the disability that was given by God after she been attack by
stroke. The pain and sorrow that she been facing is the test of God to uplift
her faith and also to delete all the sin that her done before. Thus the
physicology treatment that I did to able my wife heal from depression. Thanks
God (Alhamdullah) after one years she
mange to regain her confident and depression healing process go on smoothly and
now she regain back her confident and his emotional and values back to normal
as before she was attack by stroke (AVM).
Allahmdulillah this
strategy is able to give a good healing for her after one year.
Emotional Liability
Often, excessive crying seems to have little relationship to
sadness or what is happening around the survivor. This loss of emotional
control due to brain injury is called emotional liability. Someone who is
emotionally labile may not be sad when crying, happy when laughing, or angry
when appearing hostile. If possible, interrupting the emotional behavior of
such a person (by clapping hands or snapping fingers) is usually a good idea,
saving them embarrassment and fatigue.
What I am doing to
recover back my wife from emotional problem, by giving special care to her, I
am caring her as like caring of newly born baby. For the first few months I
have to accord her at all the day in the room. Always beside her and
communicate to her. Sleeping together, day and night. Her emotional slowly back
to normal after one year duration of taking her personally by me.
By doing this special
care to her, I mange to avoid her from depress and think negatively, by looking
to her right arm and leg cannot move, her mind thinking of be a disable person,
worry her future will not able to perform as a good wife, cannot look after her
child and thousand of questioning.
To correct her negative thinking the spouse must
show his sincerity and honesty in taking care during this critical situation.
Caregiver must be patient, to deal with stroke survivor. Because the healing
process may take some time, if we are not patient and give up half way, the
survivor will dump with problem and stress. This will effect the healing
process and also be a resistant that can slow down the recovery process.
Change in Personality
Changes in personality and emotional response are common
after a stroke. The type, size and location of a stroke, as well as the
individual's previous personality all have a bearing on what these changes will
be. The stroke survivor may seem a different person, showing feelings of anger,
caution or anxiety that are completely out of character. The affected
individual may also feel this-and feel less of a person.
This is the most
difficult and challenge situation to be face by caregiver. For the first few
month we cannot predict patient personality, keep on changing from month to
month. After some time the caregiver facing stress situation and if we cannot
coop up and manage our stress it to be depression. This happen to me for
the second year of caring my stroke
wife. In my case I had to support with Alprazolam (zanex) to release my stress,
but this medication only effective for some time only.
To resolve this
problem. I am doing the following action:
1.
Pray
(solat) to Allah, zikir in the mid night (10,000) times said : “ ALLAHU AKBAR”
( Allah The Great).
2.
Pray
for salvation please Allah to forgive any sin, ask for His Pleasure and give
His consent to able my self to take care of my wife.
3.
Recite
Quran, understanding the meaning and their teach, try to implement in my daily
life. (this to be routine of daily activities, I has to schedule my dairy .
4.
Donation
to be a daily routine ( If I have more money, amount of donation is more, when
I have little money, donate by small amount, try to be consistent).
Thus the personal
review and practiced that has heal my depression and stress. When myself able
to regain confidence and back to normal, I able to concentrate to take care to
my disable wife. By put my intention to fulfill my obligation as a husband that
was ordinance by Islam. By this intention, Allah give me the confident, patient
and doing with sincerity. By setting my mind and applied the paradigm shift,
all the burden and hardship which I am facing in taking care my wife for more
15 years was able to be a motivation factor for me to get Allah reward in
hereafter. Hoping of Paradise.
When my wife saw the
sincerity and dedication that been shown by her husband in taking care her,
from time to time her morality was improved, she can think positively and able
to accepts the handicap given by Allah is part of the process to uplift the
rank of His humble and to delete the sin which was done before, That the
promise of Allah to those who is patient with His test and challenge in this
universe. Amin.
Memory Deficits
Almost any brain injury, however slight, may cause memory
problems, contributing to language, spatial-perceptual and retention span
difficulties. For most stroke survivors, remembering old information (from
before the stroke) remains easy, while new learning is difficult.
My wife happen at
early stage of recovery after stroke
attack her memory was seriously deficits. She
some time to recognize my self even I just sit in front of her. After a few minute afterward
she can remember me. This situation took about three months. If the person is
rarely she meet, the time gaps to recover back her deficit memory will take
longer time. In a few cases she will take more than 15 to 5 minute to recognize
something,
After 5 years, she
able to recover back her memory. What my wife did is everyday she recite Quran.
Beside that most of the midnight of the week she did special prayer and she
invoke to Allah asked His forgiveness and pleasant to heal her pain and sorrow.
Now she back to normal in term of memory and her thinking and imagination. Some
time her memory is better than me. Thank God , Allah the mighty.
Generalization
Some stroke survivors are capable of learning new
information, but are unable to apply that learning to other similar situations
(generalization). For instance, they may make safe transfers to and from a
wheelchair while in the hospital, but are unable to once at home. They may
become very sensitive to and often fearful of changes in their environment, and
will thus benefit from, and be comforted by, an effectively established
routine.
Generalization situation was happen to my wife, at the early
stage of home treatment she neglect to learn new things, she look hopeless and
always asked for my help for everything of he daily life needs. To overcome
this attitude, what I am doing by taking care her desire and always with her at
the early stage of home rehabilitation , it take me about I year to slowly put
some effort to her and give morale support and always talk to her how to
recover back her ability to be independent. By doing this technique she start
to regain confident after 12 months, and bit by bit she try to put herself in
the position of stroke recover that will be heal and be as normal as before she
was attack by stroke.
Beside that I coaching
her to stay at mid night to perform prayer ( solat tahajjud) and back to Allah
to give His pleasant, so that my wife able to gain back her confident and
slowly be a independent person in dealing and preparing her personal daily
need. With the help of Allah after one year she start to gain back her
confident and her memory becoming batter from time to time. Now the time passed
away about 15 year, my wife able to gain back her confident and her memory
healing come to nearly 99 % of normal person. Alhamdulillah (thanks God. The
lesson from my wife achievement in regain back her confident and she more or
less can deal all the daily need of her by her own. This is a positive
development she has shown and proven that the personal confident and put the
hope to Allah is the most effective instrument to gain back her memories and
emotional as normal person.
Sensory deprivation
and over-stimulation
Many recent stroke survivors are overwhelmed by too much
stimulation. When visiting, go singly or in small, quiet groups, and speak one
at a time.
Conversely, some stroke survivors may have diminished
sensations of touch, pressure, sight or pain, causing them to suffer a constant
level of sensory deprivation, leading to psychological stress. The quiet of
night may compound this-a radio playing softly or a soft light left on may
help.
Quality Control
Even minor brain damage affects a memory related area of
behavior called quality control. This refers to how well individuals check and
control their own behavior. A previously fastidious person may fail to bathe or
zip his fly, or a formerly polite person may become rude and profane.
Caregivers need to be aware of these deficits, and praise appropriate efforts
to compensate for them.
At early stage of been attack by stroke, my wife quite some
time become fits. Especially when she is
lonely and thinking of her future that is very dull and uncertain when she will
be heal. To resolve this tragic situation, I am seeking of alternative
treatment because the medication what she was taken just to heal for short time
and not the truly solution in the long run.
I been told by some of my friends, the best solution to heal
a stroke patient is by listening to Quran. How could listening to the verses of
Allah affect the brain cells? What's the scientific explanation to this
phenomenon? Is there a hidden energy in the Holy Quran?
My wife is not fluent in reading Quran at the first place.
To resolve this, I bought a articles of Quran with a Pen Reader. This Quran was
program in such when pointing out the pen to the verses of Quran it will read
the verses accordingly, the reciter of the verses can be selected world famous
reciter. The pen reader also can be program to slow the speed of reciter.
My wife was with the Holy Quran all the time; even while she
is sleeping. I used to leave the pen
reader on with reciting the Holy Quran. As a matter of fact, I had no idea at
that time about the technique of learning during sleep!!!
After a few months, I noticed great changes inside her. She felt that each one of her brain cells is
vibrating and reacting with the voice of the Holy Quran recitation she was
listening to. She was memorizing the Holy Quran using the technique of
listening and repeating the chapter many times. Therefore, She found that the
verses of the Holy Quran were getting easily into her memory.
Twenty years ago my
father told that listening to the Holy Quran recitation reprogrammed the brain
cells completely! But recently I was
really surprised to read about the experiments of the scientists in treating
some of the incurable diseases using the sound waves of music. Some of the
researchers such as the American scientist Annie Williams ,who is using the
music therapy technique, has come out with important results. Those results,
however, was limited until now because of the inability of the music to create
the required effects on the cells. Nevertheless, she asserts that she has come
up with unbelievable results in treating the Colon Cancer and the Brain Tumor
and other diseases. She also states that the sense of creativity has been
increased in each one of the patients who has listened to the recorded music.
Consequently , I'd like here to mention to my dear readers
the results of my wife whose recite and
listening to the recitation of the Holy Quran: She feel now that she have become stronger
than before, that the immunity of her body has increased ,and her character has
become better ,especially in dealing with people. The Holy Quran has also
awakened the sense of creativity inside her mind as the result of reading and
listening to the Holy Quran constantly .
I can say , my dear reader, that constant listening to the
Holy Quran increases the creativity in the human being and this is what
happened to my wife. I still remember that before reading and memorizing the
Holy Quran she was unable to read a single sentence correctly , but now she is
able to recite fluently .
So we can see that listening to the Holy Quran does not only
help in healing illnesses, but also contributes to developing the human
personality and the communication skills together with the ability of
creativity and coming up with new ideas. Therefore, you, dear reader, can try
this and definitely will get fantastic results.
In 1839, the scientist" Enrick William Duve"
discovered that exposing the brain to certain wave sounds can affect it
positively and negatively . When he exposed the ears to different wave sound
frequencies, he found that the brain reacts with those sound vibrations. Then,
scientists found that the brain cells are in a state of vibration during its
life time. Each cell vibrates in a certain system and is affected by the other
cells around it. So it can be noticed that any bad incident can lead to a
disorder in the vibration system of the brain.
Neural cell in the brain in a state of constant vibration.
This cell contains a complex program through which billion cells around
interact in an amazing coordination that exhibit the greatness of God. Any
disorder in this program leads to a deficiency in the immunity system and
causes diseases.
The mechanism of the cells in processing information depends
on vibrating and producing electric fields through which a human being can
talk, move, drive and interact with others. Therefore, when negative actions
such as the shocks , embarrassing situations or problems that happens to a
person during his/her life accumulate , they cause a kind of mess in the brain
cells. This mess is irksome and exhausting for the brain because it does an
extra unnecessary work.
Before the baby is born , his brain cells begin vibrating
rhythmically in a balanced way. But after its birth, each action will influence
the brain cells and the way they vibrate. So if some of the brain cells are unprepared
to tolerate high frequencies, this may cause a disorder in the vibrating system
which in turn leads to a lot of physical and psychological diseases.
Nowadays, scientists state that each form of behavior is a
result of a certain vibration of the brain cells and they asserts that exposing
a human being to certain sound frequencies frequently changes the way in which
the brain cells vibrate (i.e. changes the frequency of the cellular
vibration).Consequently, there are frequencies that make the brain cells
vibrate positively and actively and there are others that hurt the brain cells
and my cause death. Therefore , the important question now is What are the
frequencies that can be suitable for the brain??
Scientists also discovered that the DNA strap inside each
cell vibrates in a certain way as well. This strap contains the necessary
information for life, so any changes resulted from an accident ,a problem, a
virus or a disease attacking the body could make it vibrate less than the
normal speed. And the best way to make this strap perform well is reprogramming
this strap using a certain wave sound. Thus , the strap as the scientists
assert, reacts with those waves and starts vibrating vigorously. However, there
are some waves that might damage this strap.
Recently, many therapists treat people using wave sound
vibration to cure some incurable diseases such as Cancer and some other chronic
diseases in which the traditional medicine has failed . They also found this
way useful in treating some psychological diseases such as Schizophrenia,
Anxiety, sleeping problems and some bad habits such as smoking, drug addiction
and etc.
What is the best
medicine?
The best medicine to cure all illnesses is the Holy Quran.
This is a result of a long time experience in treating people. Many cases that
had incurable illnesses recovered after exposing them to the recitation of Holy
Quran. That is because of the ability of Holy Quran in rebalancing the brain
cells and increasing their capability in performing well.
Each cell has a vibrating system that Allah has created to
do its job and those cells do not understand the speech language but they deals
with frequencies and vibrations like those in the mobile phones which receive
electromagnetic waves and in turn send other waves. Therefore, we can say,
metaphorically, that in each cell there is a very complex mobile phone. And you
can imagine thousand billions of cells in your brain vibrating rhythmically in
a way that no human being can understand , realize or imitate and if any cell
was being in disorder , all the body would be in a disorder. So Holy Quran is a
blessing that urges us to thank Allah . But do we really appreciate such a
blessing?
According to the recent discoveries, scientists say that any
illness must make a change in reprogramming the cells and each cell works
according to a certain program from birth to death. Therefore, any physical or
psychological disorder causes a confusion in the vibration system of the cell
which makes a disorder in the cellular program. So we need to restore and
correct this program in order to heal this disorder.
During my meditation with the Holy Quran , I found that
there is a very precise digital system in each verse. Those verses, however, do
not only carry the language of numbers but also carry some thing like what we
call "data" or "programs" that can deal with the cells.
Therefore, we can say that those verses carry the language of those cells.
The reader may think this unscientific theory, but I assure
you that I found a lot of verses in the Quran confirming that the Holy Quran
verses carry a lot of data exactly like those normal radio waves used in
carrying information, music, sounds and so on.
Allah says in His Holy articles
" Had it been
possible for a Lecture to cause the mountains to move , or the earth to be torn
asunder , or the dead to speak , this Quran would have done so . Nay , but
Allah ' s is the whole command .(Ra'd:13:31)
If we deeply analyze this verse we, we can come up with this
question: How can the Holy Quran cause the mountain to move, or the earth to be
torn or the dead to speak?. The answer is through the data that only dead
people can understand.
As the mountains are concerned, it is known that the earth
layers move slowly nearly few centimeter a year, driving the mountains to move,
too. This movement is resulted from thermal waves produced from the melting
area under the crust. Therefore, we can say that the Quran contains data that
can deal with these thermal waves causing layers to stir and move faster that
makes cracks and earthquakes; and cuts the crust into many small pieces. This
great power is put in the Holy Quran, but we are not allowed to reach it .
Instead ,we have been told about this great power to realize how great is this
Holy Articles. Now, Can this Holy Articles which has this advantage of this
great power heal weak creatures like human beings?.
When Allah tells us that this Holy Quran is a"
healing", this means that it carries data and programs sufficient to heal
the damaged cells in the body and cures what the doctors was incapable of.
The easiest medicine
for all illnesses and diseases
Dear reader! I can say confidently according to my
experience that from a simple change in your life you can get unexpected big
results that may change your life completely as it happened to me before you. What you have to do is to listen to
the recitation of the Holy Quran as much as you can all the time: in the
morning, in the afternoon , at night, while you are asleep, when you awake up
and before you sleep. What you need to listen to the Holy Quran is to have a
media such as a Lap Top, a tape recorder, a small iPod or mp3 with headphones,
a TV, a radio or any other device.
The Holy Quran recitation sound has wave sounds that have a
certain frequency and a certain wave length. These waves spread wave fields
that affect the brain positively and restore its balance. This grants the body
a strong immunity to resist illnesses or diseases such as Cancer . Cancer is a
disorder in the performance of the cells, so listening to the Holy Quran
reprograms the cells as a computer which was full of viruses and was
"reformatted" and downloaded with new programs in order to perform
effectively. This is what man-made programs do for computers. What about the
programs which are carried in the words of Allah, the creator of all human
beings.
The amazing effect
resulting from Listening to Quran
The continuous
listening to the recitation of Holy Quran gives you the following real fruitful
results:
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increase the immunity of the body
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enhance the creativity sense
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improve the concentration ability
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heal the chronic and incurable illnesses
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change the behavior and enable people to
communicate
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better and gain trust
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create inner peace and heal the neural tensions
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heal nervousness, irritation and
precipitation
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improve the ability of taking right decisions
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decrease fear and hesitation
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improve and strengthen the personality
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heal the normal illnesses such as allergy,
headache, flu ,etc.
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improve the speech ability
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protect from diseases such as cancer and so on
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Change some bad habits such as excessive eating
and smoking
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Dear reader! those things I mentioned above are the results
I myself got: I remember I was attacked by acute panic disorder but after the
continuous listening to the Holy Quran the panic was gone without any effort. I was really surprised
"how my life changed and why? But after I read about the recent tech
nique in healing, one of which was the therapy by sounds and
sound frequencies, I knew the secret of this great change in my life. It was
listening to the recitation of the Holy Quran. What I simply did was only
listening to the Holy Quran continuously.
To conclude, I 'd like to tell you a fact that I encountered
and really tried: howsoever you spend your time in reading or listening to the
Holy Quran, you will find that this time will not be wasted nor decreased . But
you will notice that you will always have an extra time. You will find that the
same works that takes sometimes days or hours to be done can be finished in few
minutes only!
"O mankind! There
has come unto you an exhortation from your Lord , a healing for that which is
in the breasts ,and a guidance and a mercy for believers . Say : In the bounty
of Allah and in His mercy : therein let them rejoice . It is better than what
they hoard . (Jonah:10:57,58)"
Beside reciting the Quran, my wife did the prayer at mid
night, it seen a lot of improment of her attitude and mind setting. She was
able to recover her brain healing and most likely to be as normal person,.
Benefits of solat for the Muslim society @ The Ummah:
- Solat is the best platform for a Muslim, male and female to bring oneself closer to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
- Solat cleanses one's sins.
- Solat removes one's faults and improves one's decorum or akhlak.
- Solat removes ill will and envy from one's heart and mind.
- Solat is the best way to increase one's stature in life and amongst the Ummah.
- Muslims who pray and perform their solat diligently will be showered with Allah's Mercy as long as he or she maintains solat.
- If a Muslim is thrown into the Hellfire , the scorching flames will not touch the areas of one's physique which touches the ground when in prostration ( parts of one's body that comes into contact with the earth or ground upon the act of sujud.
- Solat carried out with full knowledge and understanding plus focus will enable one to sujud to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala on Yaum al Qiyamah.
- Solat increases one's internal energy and tranquilizes one's soul.
- Solat feeds one's heart and soul with the Rahmah and Sakinah of Allah Azza Wa Jalla.
- Solat is the doorway to one's receiving of Allah's Baraqah and Sustenance @ Razq.
- Solat is the Noor @ Light that brightne's up a Mukmin's Ruuh in the Duniya and Akhirat.
- Solat cures many diseases of the mind and heart @ psychological aspects-a praying soul attains a heightened sense of peace and tranquility- a balanced individual, capable of handling whatever trials and tribulations that props up in one's life.
- Allah Azza Wa Jalla commands His servants to seek His Help both in the worldly needs and those of the Akhirat @ Hereafter by carrying out the Solat, which is made up of prayers @ do'a.
- Those who perform their solat in the jamaah @ congregation can feel and experience the peace and protection of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. The power of association is what my Shaikh used to remind us. Strength through unity and oneness of purpose, which is to seek Allah's Blessings.
- Solat enables one to be in constant prayer and devotion towards Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
- Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala doubles the rewards and blessings of those who are in Solat.
- Those who take care and fulfill their Solat will be those whose amals and ibadat are accepted by Allah Ar Rahman Ar Raheem.
- By taking care of one's Solat, a Muslim is prevented from being amongst the Munafiks.
- By being amongst those who take care of the solat, a Muslim will be safe from being resurrected with the likes of the Fir'aun, Qarun, Hamman and Ubay bin Khalaf on the Yaum al Qiyamat!
- Solat beings peace of mind.
- Solat enlightens one's heart and brightens up one's face and refreshes one's spirit.
- Solat prevents one from committing vile acts and abhorrable conduct.
- Solat prevents one from being cruel and oppressive.
- Solat prevents one from losing control of one's nafs @ lust.
- Solat ensures prolonged bliss and acts a barrier towards misfortune!
- Solat brings forth blessings and removes worries or tribulations of the heart.
- Solat heals mental and psychological conditions and controls one's sexual lusts and associated sins.
- Solat is the motivating factor that helps one to do good for society by bringing one into contact with likeminded individuals, united in faith and goodwill and acts as a cementing glue that binds the hearts and minds of the Mukmins into enjoining the good and forbidding the munkar.
- Solat when carried out in a jamaah @ congregation is an excellent platform for social mingling and interaction amongst the society @ ummah.
- Solat Jamaah when carried out correctly is enlightening and brings one into contact with the learned ones in the masjid and opens up the doors of learning for all when the 'Majlis Ilmu' is carried out by the scholars and imam of the masjid. Learning opportunities for those who seek the truth and knowledge of Islam.
- Solat cleanses the hearts of the Muslims and prevents one from being a hypocrite @ munafik.
- Solat opens up the hearts and minds of the Muslims to love one another for the sake of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala for the strength of the Ummah comes from the gathering of those who are united in devotion towards Allah Ar Rahman Ar Raheem.
- Solat puts to practice the principles of Islam and is the bedrock of a Muslim's Iman and Amal in Islam.
- Solat which is carried out according to the exact Sunnah of the Blessed Messenger Muhammad Sallalahu Alaihi Wassalam will bring forth many blessings and benefits to the praying soul that will enable a Muslim to pass through the afflictions of this Duniya and the Trials of the Akhirat with the ease of those who are blessed by the Almighty and attain a state of calmness that manifests the stature of the Believers before Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. The one who prays constantly to Allah is full of bliss and calmness derived from the realization that one has fulfilled one's obligations towards one's Creator in this world and shall be rewarded accordingly in the Hereafter?
- Solat will remove hardships and make one able to face the trials and tribulations of one's daily life's. Those who succeed in reaching a certain level of correctness in their Solat will attain a level of competency in their life and be able to handle whatever trials that come up in their life?
- Solat removes sins, raises one's stature, increases the goodness in one's self and brings one closer to Allah, the Master and Overlord of all that we see or comprehend?
- Solat brings forth the gentle being in us, calms our hearts, brightens our outlook and nurtures our soul with the power of prayer.
- Solat has an effect on those who perform it by turning those who perform their Solat as trustworthy persons, be generous and kind towards others, calm and collected even when problems crop up and prevents one from ending up in the dregs of society.
- Solat is the food for the soul that never ends and spiritual fodder for the Believer.
- One who keeps his or her Solat to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala will find that his or her life will always be blessed and protected with the Blessings and Peace of Allah, our Most Gracious, Most Compassionate Creator.
- One who keeps firm to his or her Solat will find Allah's Help to be with him or her when major tests and fitnah that comes their way dissipate into nothingness as a result of their keeping to their part of the bai'ah that they keep with Ar Rahman in every prayer when they recite the Do'a Iftitah:
- "Allahu Akbaru kabiraw
- Walhamdu lillahi kathiraw
- Wasubhanallahhi bukratau waasila.
- Wajjahtu wajhia lillazi fataras sama wati wal ardha
- Hanifam muslimaw wama ana minal musyrikin.
- Inna solati wanusuki wamahyaya wammamati lillahi rabbil'alamin.
- La syarikalahu wabiza lika umirtu wa ana minal muslimin."
Meaning :
- "Allah the Almighty, the Greatest of them all;
- All praises be upon Him;
- Allah The Most Exalted of them all, all day and all night;
- I stand before The One Who created the skies and the lands;
- I am ready to leave my fate in Allah's Hands;
- And I am certainly not among those who associate Allah with other beings;
- Indeed my Solat, my good deeds, my life and my death; I leave it all in the Hands of Allah; who administers the whole universe.
- He has no rival nor parallel whatsoever; and I have been ordered as such; and I am from those who embrace Islam!"
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