PATIENCE IS THE GATEWAY TO SUCCESS – SUBAHANALLAH.

PATIENCE IS THE GATEWAY TO SUCCESS – SUBAHANALLAH.

The Qur'an is the word of Allah to speak to His massager The Prophet Muhammad saw. In the quran there is lot of  verses that speak about patience there are at least 103 words of patience  referred to in the Qur'an, either in the form of  isim  and  fi'ilnya. This proves how important the patience for a believer in the eyes of Allah..

1. Patience is the order of Allah.  "O ye who believe! Seek help in Allah with patience and prayer, Allah is with those who patience persevere."  (Al-Baqarah: 153).  similar to Ali Imran: 200, An-Nahl: 127, Al-Anfal: 46, Yunus: 109, Hud: 115.

2. God forbids His servants have the nature  of being isti'jal  (rush).  "Be patience, as people who have the courage of the apostles and do not seek to hasten (the punishment) for them ..."  (Al-Ahqaf : 35)

3. God gave praise to those who are patient and they are the high level of faith and devotion:  "... and those who are patient in adversity, suffering and in war. They are the ones who really faith and they are the ones who fear Him. "  (Al-Baqarah: 177)

4.  God loves those who are patient.  "And Allah loves those who are patient."  (Ali Imran: 146)

5.  God is always with those who are patient. This means that God will always be with His servants who are patient.  "And be patient, for surely Allah is with those who steadfastly persevere."  (Al-Anfal: 46)

6. Get a reward in the form of heaven from God for those who are patient. (Ar-Ra'd: 23-24)

SAW Rusulullah also highly praised the people who have the patience, there are many Hadith related to the patient. For example in the book  Riyadhus Righteous , Imam an Nawawi mentions the theme of 29 hadiths patient. Quotes some hadiths about the patient:

1. Patience is the " Beagle  " (very bright light). Because of this patience, a person will be able to uncover the dark. Prophet Muhammad said,  "... and patience is light ..."  (Reported by Muslim).

2. Patience is something that needs to be worked and trained optimally. The Prophet once described:  "... whoever put up patience habit to yourself (try to be patient), Allah will make him patient ..."  (HR. Bukhari)

3. Patience is the best gift God. Prophet Muhammad said,  "... and not a person is given something better and more spacious than patience."  (Agreed Alaih)

4. Patience is a virtue for the believer, as the hadith contained in the Preamble;  "It's amazing the things people believe, as all articles are good. If he gets the pleasure, he was grateful to (it out) that it is really good for him. And if it is stricken by or difficulties, be patient because it (he knows) that it is better for him. "  (Narrated by Muslim).

5. A patience will get the reward of paradise. In a hadith described;  From Anas bin Malik said, 'I heard the Messenger of Allah. said, "He says, 'When I examine my servant with his eyes, then he is patient, then I place a paradise for him.'"  (HR. Bukhari)

6. Patience is the hallmark of a strong man. Allah has described in a hadith: From Abu Hurairah said that the Messenger of Allah said, "The strong is not good at wrestling, but the strong is the one who has his soul when angry."  (HR. Bukhari)

7. Patience to take away sins. Depicting the Prophet Muhammad in a hadith:  From Abu Huraira. that Rasulullan SAW. said, "It is not a Muslim get fatigue, pain, anxiety, grief, peril and hardship, through thorns that pierced him, but God will wipe out his sins with it."  (HR. Bukhari & Muslim)

8.  Patience is a must, where one can not give up until his death. If it is very had to let him pray to God, that God will give you the best thing for him; whether life or death. Rasulullah SAW. said:  From Anas bin Malik, the Prophet said, "Do not one of you recall the arrival of deaths due to calamities that befall him. And if it is to expect it, let him pray, "Lord, keep my life if life is better for me. And make me die, if it's better for me. "  (HR. Bukhari, Muslim)

Patience is the last or refrain from feeling agitated, anxious and angry, hold the tongue of complaints, hold the limb or body of chaos.

Patience can be divided into three types, namely him ::

Patience in obedience to Allah SWT ..  my car. I will seek out its cause so that the shadow of mistakes I did in the last few weeks or a few months ago. Sometimes when we do these profits will be able to look back at our failures either intentionally or unintentionally. With that I will beristirfar much repent of all offenses I have done it. After finishing menghisbah yourself then I will talk to the owner of the car that crashed into the car I was.

Normally, the discussion in a controlled atmosphere and usually I would start discussions with the words "What can the fruit dah nak God destined to collide, no one was deliberately trying to hit '. Our discussions bias in the atmosphere is good and I would recommend that a police report to make a "claim" of their car insurance. If the damage is not much, I would suggest to the owner that the car was going to violate any workshop to discuss the cost of repairs and he will disclaim the bill. Thank God, it has been some time of an accident like this, it can be resolved well. Fatoktor mainly due to WAIT. Then we can resionalkan why it happened, due to acts of God that has been established, we as human beings can not avoid.

In my wife manage pain that lasted quite a long time (almost 15 years) much red tape as a wife of a paralyzed forced me to deal with patience. significant changes in the nature of the wife is talking taciturnity and gentle before it ill has changed 360% to someone who likes to talk, talk loud tone and nagging. In the early days ago I was quite surprised by the changes that are so substantial nature of the wife. The first few months I was able to keep him happens to motivate yourself.

"I had to be patient, because that's the nature of the lame. Remember the doctor orders. One must be emotionally distressing, to avoid it being attacked by a second stroke. " That's what always play in PINDAD, whenever I get the nagging of his wife. I had to help myself and sensitize the ears to keep her emotions. For the first few months after his wife brought it home I can get angry at the attitude of his wife's nagging. 

\Wallahulam.