WARNING TO HUSBAND WHOSE LIKE TO BULLY HIS WIFE CRUELY

 Islam impose the law how husband should take care and his obligation to secure his wife and family. The husband as the leader and the example leader to the family and he is obligate to provide food, shelter, clothes, and transport to their family usage in daily life. The husband also has to ensure his wife  and his kids will be teach to understand the faith and other related knowledge of worships to Allah to  ensure their live is performed accordingly the faith of Islam. If he not capable to do so, he have to send his family to the guru who able to do so.

 “Husband should not  drop the hearts of his wife and kids brutally   if they have done any misconduct again  of Islamic teach. The husband should take a proper action and with a  reasonable approach to advise them. As Allah said in the Koran :

“ And the mother should suckle their children for two whole years for him who desires to make complete the time suckling. And their maintenance and their clothing must be – borne by the father according to usages ; no soul shall have imposed upon it a duty but to the extent of its capacity; neither  shall  mother be made to his child, no father on account of his child. And a similar duty……..” ( Al Baqarah 233).

God said,   "Let the mother and the Ability to Provide maintenance * According to their ability, and orangutans The collapsible good fortune  let him spend out of that which Allah has given him."  (Ath-Divorces: 7). The Prophet saw hearts hadith narrated by Jabir bin Abdullah Yang Posted Muslim, Hadith Hajj Yang Long, he alluded to the women by saying,

"And for a review of their differences of you good luck and clothing ma'ruf WITH Way." 

From Hakim bin Muawiyah From his father Said, I Said, "O Messenger of Allah, What rights Among us A wife is praying over it?" Prophet Answering, 

“To feed them if vaccinated, and capped if Kedzit, do not hit the face, do not Tqbh”. 

"Will you give him to eat when you eat, when you give him clothes to dress, do not hit and do not face said …..."   (HR. Ahmad, Abu Dawud, an-Nasa'i And Ibn Majah, al Posted dishahihkan -Hakim And Ibn Hibbaan). 

The Official Best Of diinfakkan Posted Someone is the property of her family to infakkan, donation to the Family topped infak-donation in other fields. 

Abu Hurayrah may Allah be pleased with him, he said: The Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him: dinars spent in the way of Allah, and the dinar spent in the neck, and give in charity dinars by the poor, and dinars spend on your family, the greatest reward that spend on your family. 

From Abu Hurayrah said: The Messenger of Allah said,   "One thing you spent dinar ($) in the way of Allah, The dinar which you infakkan (spent) ( to review the freeing of slaves, one dinar which you infakkan To  Poor And The dinar which you infakkan to the family, which paled in Reward It's great that you infakkan to the family.  "(Narrated by Muslim). 

The right of maintenance for Family reviews Highly stressed hearts Islam, Someone will bear a burden is not light if dinafkahinya he should abandon the orangutan. 

And Abdullah ibn Amr ibn al-Aas, may Allah be pleased with him: The Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him: Enough is enough sin for a man to waste from Icot. 

From Abdullah bin 'Amr bin al-As said, the prophet said,   "Enough An ITU great burden when he squandered the supposed mother and her alimony."   (Reported by Abu Dawud, an-Nawawi Posted validated hearts. Riyadh al-Shalihin not no. 6/294). 

It was narrated Posted WITH meaning Muslim, the Prophet said, look,   "Enough IS A large burden if he is required to support the living orangutan him a living."

When living is not fully given up Posted husband to wife wife and children The lack wife was allowed to review the extent of taking the property of her husband Yang disterituhkan in kindness Unbeknownst to her husband. 

From this she said, Utbah wife of Abu Sufyan came to the Prophet, he said, "O Messenger of Allah, Abu Sufyan's husband stingy, he did not give me a living thing mencukupiku And my children except what I take from his wealth without his knowledge, if I sinned THEREFORE? "He said, look, 

Take the Promotion of Virtue Majkovak of his money, and your children enough. 

"Take from his property what is right and what is mencukupimu your children."  (Agreed upon). 

If the husband tangled trouble until he is able to provide alimony to the wife and she was not happy with the condition of the wife he is entitled to the right to marriage fasakh WITH Reason trouble hearts husband Provides maintenance, dala known jurists dictionary WITH  al-Faskhu bill  I'sar. 

From Said ibn al-Musayyib OF A man who does not have what he should spend his wife, he said, "Both are inseparable." Posted narrated by Sa'eed ibn Mansoor. And Sufyan ath-Tsauri And Abu Zanad said it, I said to Said, "Sunnah?" He replied, "Sunnah." Ibn Hajar said: hearts   Sahih Al  -Bukhari, "THIS IS A STRONG is unjust." 

Violence fizikal :

Including brutality To Wife is doing follow-catch physical form of beatings Regardless signs Yang Posted laid Shari'a, Only BECAUSE Small problems sometimes Wife Should OR ACCEPT Punch Kick From husband. Husband Obviously once an act of persecution To Wife, plus Again usually the husband Yang beat NOT pay attention MEMBER Body wife so Happens is a husband beat MEMBERS The unlawful for a review was beaten. 

The Word of God,   "Women That ye fear rebellion, admonish them and separate they, in their beds and beat them   "(An-Nisa ': 34). 

This verse Label husband allows wife beating, but NOT original hit, paragraph husband put limits and provisions. First, ia done when Wife nushuz, namely lawless WITH NO manaati husband hearts Limits The permissible, Husband Means if Wife Not Proven nusyuz Then husband yet do be, the taxable income Proven Wife nusyuz So NO Automatic husband Direct hit her husband first must perform before prayer Stages advised Namely, if the wife is a Muslim obedience An(soleh)  he Proven Advice nusyuz So Suffice it to him, he will realize his mistake and return to the true path’.  If WITH Advice Still Not Quite So the second step that must be passed Namely Split him in Beds. In the initial stage if it is a Muslim's wife most obedience (solehah) And Proven she nusyuz Then he will realize, so the husband is NOT worth doing The last step in. If Stages initial conducted WITH Neither undoubtedly will NOT beatings occurred, if the husband beats her taxable income the run Stages WITH Neither Then hearts Spouse Is a woman's condition stupid. So who has prayer? Goat What NOT impervious rebuked WITH Mouth indeed wonder rebuked WITH sticks. 

Although hit allowed but it is a way the ultimate Should preceded Posted some way Good And Soft, Writer Sure if Ways husband run with Neither undoubtedly will NOT THERE catch hearts of his wife, and Islam is NOT the scapegoating AS trigger catch hearts households Only BECAUSE his allowed to hit. 

Look Exemplary Prophet, Aisha said, "saw the Messenger NOT even hit something with his hands, NOT woman, NOT too helper except hearts circumstances jihad in the path of Allah. "(HR. Muslim). 

In addition Limitation hit ALSO It must be noted, since the objective is to educate not hurt then hit That allowed is hitting that will NOT injure And NOT break, NOT injure the flesh and NOT break bones, plus NO hit MEMBERS The forbidden eg face as hearts”. Hadith Hakim bin Muawiyah in differences.

By ITU and the men must have knowledge and a deep knowledge of Limitations husband be allowed to review a law wife hit with the terms of the very motions.  If the husband mistakenly take action excessively hitting wife (did not match error), then he Keep in mind And take risk  that in the next will come later in the law of God Posted extremely painful doom.

Another words, the husband has  a responsibility to take care, shelter and provided enough fund to them so their family will have batter living in the world and the day after in the akhirat.

Wallahu'alam.