GOAL OF MARRIAGE

GOAL OF MARRIAGE

God has created the human instinct to live in pairs, have feelings of love and affection between men and women. But Islam prohibits men and women relationships inversely, not by law that is relation enthusiasm and passion for fun. The relationship is allowed by Islam is the wedding. When a husband and wife relationship it is lawful to do well, men and women. Among the wedding that please by Allah is with the following factors: -

• God's intention for such a purpose to build a Muslim household, to give birth to offspring who are righteous, families who are willing to assume the existence of trust and can perform up to the guidance of God's guidance will continue as the word of God;

 "The generations that are (demand) than the other" (Ali-Imran: 34)

• In order to preserve views and honor alongside his duty to Allah. Remember guys from his gaze actually raise our hearts in prayer . Don't miss the chance of (his gaze), the guys! Said; "Allah has the right to help three groups; those who strive in the cause of Allah, mukatib servants who want to pay the ransom, and those who marry in order to preserve the dignity"

• Wisely choosing a wife who will become life partners and friends along with you because said; "Choose to offspring, surely the descendants of the dispute." In another narration was mentioned; "Marriage them of equal status"

• Selecting a wife who has morals and cling to religion, though not in wealth and beauty, compared with others, because when the Prophet SAW said, "Do not marry a woman for her beauty. It may be that their beauty will make them humble .Do you marry women because their property, it may be that their wealth will make them to be wrong, but marry them because of their religion humble women with flaw ear and ***** but religion is better "(Hadith of Ibn Majah) 

• Stay away from contradict the commandment of God in these matters and try to avoid the wrath of God to pass, because the Messenger of Allah; "Who would marry a woman because of its height, the marriage did not add anything to it except lowly. Whose to marry him tap his wealth, wedding, it does not add anything to it except poverty .who marry him because of his descendants, the marriage did not add anything to it except humiliation. And who marry women with a view to be able to gaze and guard their chastity or connect relationship, God will give thanks again to the woman with him "(hadith of Abu Nu'aim)

Dr. HM Tuah Iskandar Al-Haj, who said;

 "Love is supposed to make people more energetic, strong and fully motivated" and "Married means a willingness to accept someone for loving"

For Reflection Together.

v  A good man does not look at feature

v  righteous man will not vote for a woman through her ​​sexuality.

v  Men pious woman judge with moral, personal and her religious.

v  A good man does not want a woman in a meeting with the opposite sex because she was afraid to give an opportunity to the devil to tempt him ...

v  Men pious nor why he wanted to make love to know what the goal of the relationship between men and women that MARRIAGE ... "

Wallahu'alam.