Plan time to hang out with wife.

7. Plan  time to hang out with  wife.

Where was love husband and wife, especially if the wife is beautiful and graceful in his  eyes. I almost every day to take the time to hang out with my  wife. A practice that has been maintained until now (almost 35 years), The practices will maintain our evergreen love and will be a factor that can be a good shield to fight any disturb that will eradicate your passionate love to your spouse.

Every morning before leaving the home to go to work, I'll meet my  wife for a few minutes, during this meeting it normally given praise to wife as saying "Darling  so sweet, I Love Your" followed by kisses.   It makes  her feel loved  and loved  completely by husband all the time. Such habit  should be practiced by all Muslim husband because  it is sunnah of the prophet Muhammad SAW..

Treatment romantic style can we emulate the Prophet Muhammad. Although the  atmosphere present conjugal life is always busy with work. We can also take a romantic Sunnah of the Prophet Muhammad begins at home before leaving for work. For example, when sending my  wife to leave the house as did the Prophet to his wife, Safia, daughter Huyay that the Prophet said:

"Do not hurry up I accord (accompanied him to the door)" . Hadith narrated by  Bukhari and Muslim.

Even the Prophet also help his wife boarding the vehicle. In the Sahih Bukhari and Muslim narrated that " The Prophet Muhammad sat beside his camel. Then he bowed his knee. Then his wife Safia put his foot over the knee of the Prophet Muhammad to ride on a camel. " Is not this practice in accordance with the open car door to entice his wife as the wife of former times. Or an occasional ride in the back as the wife of Bukhari that said Anas bin Malik relates that when returning from battle of Khaibar, one of the wives of the Prophet to ride with him.

This will also make the fabric of love will flourish every time in the household. This will make relationship of  husband and wife became more friendly. These things actually are practices that are always done by Rasulullah SAW.  He is an example of the most loving husband and always fond of his wife, how romantic  him with his wives.

Husband should have skills in managing everyday life within 24 hours so that it to be a  quality time. Likewise, should the planned time most  suitable for a friendly chat with our  wife every day. My practice is at night, usually  it will take up spare time in the evenings, especially after night  prayers while  my  wife sat on the sofa  watching TV.

"Today I am so tired, your son  to active Bang”  restless voices out from my  wife while I relax in front of the TV..

"Be patient darling" I interjected.

" Too much Bang, he is hyperactive".

"When he reach older age over 6 year to be ok '. I try to convinced my wife.

"Yes he is," said the wife.

Dialogue took place over 30 years ago, when we had two children. At that time I worked as ADO .. We chatted while watching TV. Such an atmosphere can be said to   occur every day when I was at home.  Such time is the most precious time for me to hang out with my wife. The time needed in the design to allow   my wife and also explore the problem in rumahl the day I left for duty in the office.

I would sit nearby and adjacent to my wife, touching  body to body  will produce strong feelings of love between husband and wife. Sometimes we refer to as "king crab" whenever I was at home when no guests. Children have a habit of seeing my wife and I feel like this. For me the time to be at home to be managed and used wisely. If there is space to hang out with the wife and I will use to the extent possible.

Another best time for a friendly chat with his wife is at night when we were getting ready for bed, which is at approximately 5 to 20 minutes prior to sleep in, I will talk with my wife and  feel lovingly.

"Remember that, before going to sleep must recite 3 verses of Quran ( 3 Qul),  Recite Bismillahirrahmannirrahim  21 times" I told to my wife at one time.

"The propose of reading Bang '.

"It is the sunnah of the Prophet  SAW.  By reading this to avoid nightmare  when we sleep and dream of the devil off the land. " I said to my wife whose require clarification.

" father told me, if we read Basmallah 21 times, will be preserved from death in  sleep, avoid thieves entered in the house, avoid fire on the house  with God's permission. I give understanding to the wife as a teacher giving a lecture.

"Ooo that very good", the wife signal that he has understood and brushing my hand softly.

This practice has become daily  routine of us  to read verses from the Koran and prayer prior to  sleep. Basmallah has to read 21 times before sleep. These tips have been taught by my father when I was still in primary school.

               

If I have  outstation task for a few days. I will keep touch over the telephone. It is customary, I'll call my wife on the morning after morning prayers of the first day.

"Assalamualaikum darling," I began a telephone conversation with wife.

"Waalaikumussalam Bang". The voice of a wife on speaker phone.

“ Have your perform the morning prayer".

"I just finished"    

"Who help you " 

"your youngest daughter, Bihah"

"Aldamdhulillah".

Asking  about her health, eating habits   and drugs daily  schedule  is routine for me when outstation. This habit use to get in touch with my wife whose is disable and handicap after attacked by stroke. The purpose of doing this also as part of my wife brain rehabilitation proses.

“ Ok, I love you sweet heart, uuuumph”.

"Abang,  miss you so much, be ready I want to eat sweet apples when going home, bye" meaningfully joke,

"Naughty Abang niiiiii"

I do it all as a therapy for the mind to keep my wife emotional to the best haling process. It is the best way to avoid her feeling stress and depression.  The doctor advised to take proactive action and ensure my wife emotional felling and mind will be a positive tough and she must think that her future is pleasant and full of good hope.  If the condition persists it can lead to a recurrence of bleeding in the brain and the second stroke attack may be happen.

Tips:

1.      Action  husband to always hang out with the wife every time you want to leave the house is one of the most effective weapons in order to prevent a man carrying an intimate relationship with a woman in the curved there. This action creates a feeling of love and affection towards his wife would always dress warmly and make it like new "marriage". This will prevent syahawat and demons of lust incite us to do an affair with another woman unlawfully and contrary to Islamic law. If we stay focused on our wives and families will be spared yourself from temptation by the devil to persuade us to do evil and evil as adultery preamble.

2.      When we constantly renew the love with wife,  happy relationship will create an intimate atmosphere, making us constantly renew the feelings of joy and love. This is a very good to strengthen an alliance domestic harmony. Let us imagine during our teen age last time, Our life is full of joy and happy, feeling lovely dan be love by our girlfriend and always dream of her beauty.. Likewise, the same situation will apply to spouses who constantly renew the feelings of love and affection for them. Even in relation of sex requirement the evergreen passionate love will maintain the first night admire every time we  held an intimate relationship. If your not even do this tips, please try it and you will get the wright answer to it. Subahanallah.

3.      In conclusion husband and wife mutually maintain their love affair and always innovate the feeling of love in each other, can produce results that are highly valuable in husband and wife relationship  and  able to strengthen household structures   intact from any external threats. Like a beautiful diamond if left in the sink from time to time by the wearer, over time diamonds sparkle rays can fade and make it as penny less stone.

4.      The husband is important to have a various skill of communication technique, personal motivation, how to lead and influence people, time management and other personal soft skill.  Allah bestow it can be used for quality and excellent impact in maintaining loving relationship.