Where was love husband and wife, especially if the wife is beautiful
and graceful in his eyes. I almost every
day to take the time to hang out with my wife. A practice that has been maintained
until now (almost 35 years), The practices will maintain our evergreen love and
will be a factor that can be a good shield to fight any disturb that will
eradicate your passionate love to your spouse.
Every morning before leaving the home to go to work, I'll meet my wife for a few minutes, during this meeting it
normally given praise to wife as saying "Darling so sweet, I Love Your" followed by
kisses. It makes her feel loved and loved
completely by husband all the time. Such habit should be practiced by all Muslim husband
because it is sunnah of the prophet
Muhammad SAW..
Treatment romantic style can we emulate the Prophet Muhammad. Although
the atmosphere present conjugal life is
always busy with work. We can also take a romantic Sunnah of the Prophet
Muhammad begins at home before leaving for work. For example, when sending my wife to leave the house as did the Prophet to
his wife, Safia, daughter Huyay that the Prophet said:
"Do not hurry up I accord (accompanied him to the door)"
. Hadith narrated by Bukhari and Muslim.
Even the Prophet also help his wife boarding the vehicle. In the Sahih
Bukhari and Muslim narrated that " The Prophet Muhammad sat beside his
camel. Then he bowed his knee. Then his wife Safia put his foot over the knee
of the Prophet Muhammad to ride on a camel. " Is not this practice in
accordance with the open car door to entice his wife as the wife of former
times. Or an occasional ride in the back as the wife of Bukhari that said Anas
bin Malik relates that when returning from battle of Khaibar, one of the wives
of the Prophet to ride with him.
This will also make the fabric of love will flourish every time in the
household. This will make relationship of husband and wife became more friendly. These
things actually are practices that are always done by Rasulullah SAW. He is an example of the most loving husband
and always fond of his wife, how romantic him with his wives.
Husband should have skills in managing everyday life within 24 hours so
that it to be a quality time. Likewise,
should the planned time most suitable
for a friendly chat with our wife every
day. My practice is at night, usually it
will take up spare time in the evenings, especially after night prayers while
my wife sat on the sofa watching TV.
"Today I am so tired, your son
to active Bang” restless voices
out from my wife while I relax in front
of the TV..
"Be patient darling" I interjected.
" Too much Bang, he is hyperactive".
"When he reach older age over 6 year to be ok '. I try to
convinced my wife.
"Yes he is," said the wife.
Dialogue took place over 30 years ago, when we had two children. At
that time I worked as ADO .. We chatted while watching TV. Such an atmosphere
can be said to occur every day when I
was at home. Such time is the most precious
time for me to hang out with my wife. The time needed in the design to
allow my wife and also explore the
problem in rumahl the day I left for duty in the office.
I would sit nearby and adjacent to my wife, touching body to body will produce strong feelings of love between
husband and wife. Sometimes we refer to as "king crab" whenever I was
at home when no guests. Children have a habit of seeing my wife and I feel like
this. For me the time to be at home to be managed and used wisely. If there is
space to hang out with the wife and I will use to the extent possible.
Another best time for a friendly chat with his wife is at night when we
were getting ready for bed, which is at approximately 5 to 20 minutes prior to
sleep in, I will talk with my wife and feel lovingly.
"Remember that, before going to sleep must recite 3 verses of
Quran ( 3 Qul), Recite
Bismillahirrahmannirrahim 21 times"
I told to my wife at one time.
"The propose of reading Bang '.
"It is the sunnah of the Prophet
SAW. By reading this to avoid
nightmare when we sleep and dream of the
devil off the land. " I said to my wife whose require clarification.
" father told me, if we read Basmallah 21 times, will be preserved
from death in sleep, avoid thieves
entered in the house, avoid fire on the house with God's permission. I give understanding to
the wife as a teacher giving a lecture.
"Ooo that very good", the wife signal that he has understood
and brushing my hand softly.
This practice has become daily routine of us to read verses from the Koran and prayer prior
to sleep. Basmallah has to read 21 times
before sleep. These tips have been taught by my father when I was still in
primary school.
If I have outstation task for a
few days. I will keep touch over the telephone. It is customary, I'll call my
wife on the morning after morning prayers of the first day.
"Assalamualaikum darling," I began a telephone conversation
with wife.
"Waalaikumussalam Bang". The voice of a wife on speaker
phone.
“ Have your perform the morning prayer".
"I just finished"
"Who help you "
"your youngest daughter, Bihah"
"Aldamdhulillah".
Asking about her health, eating
habits and drugs daily schedule is routine for me when outstation. This habit
use to get in touch with my wife whose is disable and handicap after attacked
by stroke. The purpose of doing this also as part of my wife brain
rehabilitation proses.
“ Ok, I love you sweet heart, uuuumph”.
"Abang, miss you so much, be
ready I want to eat sweet apples when going home, bye" meaningfully joke,
"Naughty Abang niiiiii"
I do it all as a therapy for the mind to keep my wife emotional to the
best haling process. It is the best way to avoid her feeling stress and
depression. The doctor advised to take
proactive action and ensure my wife emotional felling and mind will be a
positive tough and she must think that her future is pleasant and full of good
hope. If the condition persists it can
lead to a recurrence of bleeding in the brain and the second stroke attack may
be happen.
Tips:
1. Action
husband to always hang out with the wife every time you want to leave
the house is one of the most effective weapons in order to prevent a man
carrying an intimate relationship with a woman in the curved there. This action
creates a feeling of love and affection towards his wife would always dress
warmly and make it like new "marriage". This will prevent syahawat
and demons of lust incite us to do an affair with another woman unlawfully and
contrary to Islamic law. If we stay focused on our wives and families will be
spared yourself from temptation by the devil to persuade us to do evil and evil
as adultery preamble.
2. When we constantly renew the love with
wife, happy relationship will create an
intimate atmosphere, making us constantly renew the feelings of joy and love.
This is a very good to strengthen an alliance domestic harmony. Let us imagine
during our teen age last time, Our life is full of joy and happy, feeling lovely
dan be love by our girlfriend and always dream of her beauty.. Likewise, the
same situation will apply to spouses who constantly renew the feelings of love
and affection for them. Even in relation of sex requirement the evergreen
passionate love will maintain the first night admire every time we held an intimate relationship. If your not
even do this tips, please try it and you will get the wright answer to it.
Subahanallah.
3. In conclusion husband and wife
mutually maintain their love affair and always innovate the feeling of love in
each other, can produce results that are highly valuable in husband and wife relationship
and able to strengthen household structures intact from any external threats. Like a
beautiful diamond if left in the sink from time to time by the wearer, over
time diamonds sparkle rays can fade and make it as penny less stone.
4. The husband is important to have a
various skill of communication technique, personal motivation, how to lead and influence
people, time management and other personal soft skill. Allah bestow it can be used for quality and
excellent impact in maintaining loving relationship.
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