Be Romantic Husband

10.  Be Romantic Husband

Being romantic and joking with his wife is a practice carried out by the husband of the most dominant in the world, it was the Prophet Muhammad SAW.

He mostly joking with his wife. One day came Saodah (one of the wives of the Prophet SAW) to the house of Aisha. Then the Prophet sitting between Aisha and Saodah and put his foot on their laps. When Aisha invited Saodah to eat, she rejected as not in the mood. Then Aisha said: "(Allah), eat or I'll mess your face". Saodah refused, saying: I will not eat. " Then Aisha took the food and rubbed into the face of  Saodah. Prophet SAW laugh. Prophet SAW asked Soahah to do the same to Aisha, then  Saodah returned the dirty face of Aisha. After Saodah dirty face of Aisha, the Prophet SAW continued to laugh. ( HR: An-Nasai'e, Ibn Abi Dunya)

This story is an amusement Prophet SAW with his wives. Rasulullah SAW had also persuaded Ayesha to get rid of anger she intentionally holding his nose as recorded by  Ibnu  Sunni.

So romantic marriage of the Prophet Muhammad SAW. Maybe this is the secret of true love which remains to the end of life of the Prophet Muhammad SAW. Chatting, joking, caressing and touching. Until the verses of love engraved on the lips of a prophet to call your child calls his wife. Beautiful voice called out "Yes Humaira" Aisha which means "O reddish white or red roses". Make it more intimate bond. 

Sometimes she calls Prophet spoiled by the acronym "Yes Aisy" which means life during which he presented greetings from the Angel Gabriel to Aisha. By removing the last letter indicates the level of love, and love will find comforting familiarity of the Prophet.

Indeed, being the wife of a fellow romantic it is sunnah of the Prophet Muhammad SAW. We hope that with this sunnah to foster closer ties between the couple. The sunnah is not something to be ashamed to be practiced. Husband, come on in accordance with the instructions of the Prophet's SAW wife making love with each other. If the wife feels strange whence romantic gesture husband. Is the man had just finished completing the romance of Romeo and Juliet. Please be spoiled. This romantic novel instead of the usual, but this romantic coming of the Prophet Muhammad SAW. The Idol husband for the Muslim follower and will be all the time before, now and after.

What I observe is hovering while my wife and I travel far alone in the car, I will praise my wife.

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"How beautiful darling, I love you," I teased while driving.

"Abaang neee, Dare to  say that,  your will be punish soon " the wife answered spoiled.

"Best or not last night"

"SSH IIIII Bang, naughty" smile wife thousand words.

This situation is often only occurs when both of us boarded the car. Moreover if the journey time co-opted several hours.

Sometimes I hold my wife  fingers or hands, wiping spoiled, such action  made my​a wife feels she is so loved by her husband. This situation some times is the venue  to  enable us  sharing of problem children between husband and wife so we can  have  a mutually agreed solution to be implemented to address the problems of our children faced from time to time.

Thank God, this method encouraging   many results to strengthen the intimacy of husband and wife, and also to overcome the impasse in the family together. This technique is a method of how to use the time available in the period of 24 hours for more effective,  Because when we were in  the car,  at the time was the most effective where the husband and wife will not be disturbed by others.

Jokes before we sleep each night also is  normal  practice that is practiced by me. Normally time before sleep is most suitable because at this time I would hug her and give words of praise about the beauty and goodness of my  wife. If this is done will allow the wife feels she is loved and when we slept in a state of excitement will produce positive aura in our body and followed the dream of the fine that would have a positive effect on our health when waking up to the next morning. I can feel how calm and healthier in the morning when wake up. Thank God for all the blessings that gave our calm mind and healthy condition.

If I  always joke, kidding and play full  with my wife every night, will be able to reduce feelings of stress that we experience in the morning and the previous evening. Jokes made between husband and wife will give birth to positive hormones in the body and it is a reaction which is good for our health husband and wife.

Sometimes I've also used the opportunity that existed during the time we were in touch by phone, usually I will insert the conversations that are jokes and joke between husband and wife when finished   only the main thing that we want to discuss. I find this method of relationship of love and affection we can fertilize each time to maintain the happiness that we take in and enjoy this long. Thank God.

Romantic with our wife is one of the way to groom our love so that it will be evergreen every time. Thus activities that can be classified a romantic relationship between husband and wife should be attain and practiced. If we look to the natural ecosystem of living thing in the universe. There will be a change of attitude as the system cycle are change. So to avoid any negative changes of our lover, we need to keep the relationship environment so it is always in the good and strong ties or holding. The careless husband who do not give special attention to the romantic relationship to his wife, one day or  another there will be  intruder who  will take the aporturnites to make love with your wife when there is a conflict that may occur between husband and wife. Normarlly  the wife  will go  to the third  person to vast out her disppionted. Thus the  time very crucial  for women and when there is a man who take care of her sadness and very keen to listen to his problem, then the Satan will coming and influence the women to follow their instruction to do the sin. Praise God will dislocation. (Naauzubillahhiminzalik).

Tips:

1.      As a   husband we need to use every moment of time available for nurture in love and friendly relations with our wives. It should be done every time to allow feelings of love and affection between husband and wife is renewed constantly, like a car battery which nearly lost power in an all. If this can be done as a routine practice in married life will make a cheerful atmosphere in the family is always there.    Cheers will be giving birth in the family and environment friendliness makes all the occupants in a house in harmony as one their families a happy and cheerful, it will give birth to it says "Home Syaurga by Me."

2.      Nature husband always praised his wife will give birth to an atmosphere of happiness and love   always burning them. This atmosphere will affect a very positive when they have sex as husband and wife, a fervent sex allows them to maintain a more intimate love makes coitus satisfaction is always achieved the maximum by the husband and wife. This situation will be a  hindrance to the devil who always persuade and seduce her husband appetite (especially) to do evil to other women out there.

3.      Husband also must be smart in choosing the appropriate time to joke with his wife. If juggle our  time in life will allow us to use the limited time in the next 24 hours it is used more effectively and quality. The skill related with time management must be acquire by husband and wife.

4.      Experience a part of the relationship between husband and wife as shown in a household will be seen by their children. Normally, children will follow the properties of the parent, The good habits and relationships and intimate  that always shown by mom and dad will be followed and contrasts to children, the warmth of mother and father will become an idol to his anal us to emulate what practiced by their parents .. If in a family that has many members who have attitudes and practices in life lead to a good relationship and mutual love shows in between each other, will be born the family were happy and joyous. Happy family is the product of closed relationship between mom and dad with other family members.