Occasionally encourage bathing with wife

13.  Occasionally encourage bathing with  wife

 Jokes in the shower together is sunnah that can strengthen the relationship of husband and wife. Imam Al-Bukhari narrated, meaning;   "From Aisyah r.ha said: I always shared with the Prophet SAW of the former. Our hands are equally split (when using The water in the container) "

From this hadith, we can see how beautiful and romantic Prophet SAW with his wives. This romantic picture, captured by Aisha tells how the Prophet SAW could shower together so that they differ hand and turns.

Bathing  is meant in this discussion, not specific to the common bathroom, even including a jinabah or referred to as a mandatory bathe. In a hadith narrated by Imam Muslim, is indicated;

That is: "I always shared with the Prophet from the container, and then we were unclean".

Action Prophet SAW while bathing, not just a shower together, but she was also told that while it shared the Prophet, the Prophet curly Aisha hair.

And once while taking a bath, they are joking and kidding. They both play around the water, the rush to fetch water in the atmosphere so much that she was having fun asking him if the water is kept for her because everything has been taken by the Prophet.

Even in another hadith, Umm Salamah once told me that he shared with the Prophet and then he kissed her. This is true, when he was fasting.

With this review, the assessment that we can take is, as the most perfect leader and the messenger of Allah  Prophet Muhammad SAW practices bathing together with his wife, we should emulate this practice of the Prophet Muhammad SAW as sunnah.. The bathing together between husband and wife is a demonstration of the passionate love that is very strengthen ties. Thus will be a symbol of deeply intimate between husband and wife.

Beside that according to biological research if man and women bathing together, the water that flow after  bathing the whole body will accumulate ion positive and  ion negative,  thus the mixed between molecule of water from man and women will bring a positive ion that is very good to stimulate the positive ion and it is better to human health. It  also will be a good for aura that to be closed intimate between husband and wife to make their thinking and attitude most likely the same.

As been stated that bathing together between husband and wife is part of the teachings of Islam. In fact, if you were to womanhood, they will feel valued if they were treated by their husband as such, the woman should not refuse when invited by their husbands for a shared bathroom. Look Aisha and Umm Salama that the Prophet SAW did, They do not reject the invitation to bathe together. In fact, seen that she was very proud of the actions by the Prophet SAW  who was so willing to tell him this. If not, how this story is recorded in the books of hadith.

In the real life of me and my wife this practices  is carried out since the first day of our marriage, in the beginning  I did that just to express my  love to  wife. After some time when I was told that bathing together is one of the practices of Prophet Muhammad SAW. I have to maintain the habit of bathing together with wife because that is part of practicing the Prophet sunnah that will be a good appreciation form Allah and we will be rewarded with pahala and good place to stay In the haven at the day hereafter.

“ Abang, the water is too cold,, huuh very cold” my wife noted to me at one morning”. My wife complained.

“ either cold or not, we have to bathe, it is compulsory , otherwise we cannot perform our solat”. My response to her.

“ Abang , your are too naughty, because of you we has to bathing in the cool state”.

“ Don’t blame me, cause darling also want it” wife look at me with thousand meaning.

Such casual atmosphere when we bath for prayers, especially when bathing in the morning after a possible increased Time intimate. This setting while swimming with giving a boost to our love and affection is constantly burning at all times. In fact, we feel like a spring wedding honeymoon. This is one of the factors our love relationship always accurate warm up even though our marriage come to the age of 35 yearAfter my talk where religion teacher told   that Rasullah also been practicing his bathroom with his wife (she is mainly r.ha) continue the practice of swimming with my wife as one of the preferred follow-Sunnah in our married life. In fact, this practice has become a common daily routines even more so after my wife paralyzed.

Experience  will be shared ideals and expressed feeling more intimate love between husband and wife. While this sometimes happens with a joke that makes love and affection more accurate. This action could add to the wife of her husband's belief that she is the only wife of a beloved husband.  According to research from the angle of contact 'aura' of husband and  wife will become intimate again when the effect of   the bath water between them will recognize each body other. The positive ions and negative of the husband and wife will be immune recharge can help to improve their health. This situation will lead to the feeling for both of them with the freshness and  extraordinary body health after shower and also spawned a romantic relationship.

From the experience of my life during my children age, my father and mother bathe together as part of their habit. They used to take bathing at the well which just  outside our house that is within 10 meters. I've heard parents talking in the shower and sometimes followed by laughter from my mother. During that time I am still a child, and did not bother their conversation. But the event is still in my memory till to day. That time I still remember my mom and dad is a happy couple and their closed intimate love evergreen forever.

When my wife was attack by stroke, bathing together is becoming part of our daily life. I have to help my wife to enable her taking the bathe properly. My wife is very comfortable when I bathed her. This common bathing together is part of my holistic treatment that I was practiced to speed up for recovery of my wife thinking to be back as normal person. Alhamdulillah. This holistic approach seem to be one of the most effective way to regain back the level of confident of the stroke patient and will boost up their hope to recover back as normal person.

Tips:

1.      Bathe with spouse together  as one method of time management to have a friendly relationship of husband and wife, because usually these bath time both husband and wife have a little quiet time, followed by flushing with fresh water in the body rejuvenating weary after a long day at work , Freshness after bathing together allows the husband and wife are having peace mind together and certainly the activity to be carried out afterwards by the two of them would allow the energetic and comfortable atmosphere. Such an atmosphere will further strengthen the loving relationship of their household.

2.      Intimate relationship during bathing with couple will be attentive to their children and would create a mindset among children how friendly and powerful love both of their parents. This will give effect to the social patterns of children under their parents are so happy and they also have to produce a gesture of affection to all family members.

3.      Culture in the family who always shown  the atmosphere of love will make all the family happy and lovely  atmosphere, compared with the relations between husband and wife frequently quarrel and  fight will affect the emotions of their children. Like arise hatred of one of their parents, who often make their homes chaotic atmosphere and commotion. Such an environment makes children will take a stand like leaving the house to get him out of the atmosphere of discord and strife in their home. In other words, this practice will give birth to a shared bathroom and a happy love couple who are very strong and affect the home environment that is always calm and cool. This will create a peaceful and happy environment in a household and finally be born the concept "My house is my heaven" . In other words, a house full of harmony and passionate love among the members of their families makes fun of all family members living in the house every time and to be happy go lucky family.

Wallahua'lam.