How to Achive a Happy Family:

HAPPY FAMILY:

The dream of every husband and wife who are married are to achieve the formation of a Happy Family, though so not all couples achieve success in their marriage. Marriage couple has to faces many mines and obstacles  as a ship sailing on the high seas will encounter wind resistance, storms, turbulence and   other challenges. For the husband who does not ready with vast knowledge of managing the family  and face the resistance to manage the family are going down in the middle of the street.

Therefore in order to achieve its noble goals, the husband and wife must have knowledge and a positive and proactive attitude to enable them to both help each other in carrying out married life. One way to acquire knowledge is to undergo a course organized by the parties concerned, as well as getting a lesson from those who are experienced and have been able to achieve the formation of a happy family.

This article present a few tips that have been practiced by those who managed to make the family happy throughout their lives as husband and wife. Among tips  recommended are:

1.       Assume Couple Like Yourself :

Assuming the couple as yourself should be cherished, caressed, loved and respected. Instinct of every human being to get the love and affection especially   for married couples. If husband and wife can appreciate these tips, it will be mutually be careful in doing such acts and speech so as not to offend their partners.

Normally for the problematic  husband and wife with their egos and try to uphold the wet threads of respect for others has faded. It was very different during the part of those in the real of romance, first priority to practice keep faith in each pair of gestures in daily interactions. Therefore care must be maintained mutual mate . Couple of our hearts is a mirror of ourselves. Wherever we go we have a portrait of the couple brought together. The action of this kind if practiced regularly, will be a happy marriage.

2.        The wife is not a maid:

The majority husband thinks housework is the responsibility of the wife completely. While in Islam there is no text that says that the wife must do housework. Islamic teachings say only  married women should obey God and husband. Preserve the dignity and property of the husband with the best will be offer a place  in paradise. For many women this warranty does not take assignation with the work emanating from the house as they do over the years. While the husband were taking advantage of this situation to make a culture that housework should be done solely by the wife.

3.       The Wife Is the normal human being:

Wives are women who are full of emotion. If they are happy with what the feelings and emotions then they will be in a relaxed and carefree and happy. 

On the other hand if they are in a stressful situation and is not pleased with what is happening, then the feeling will be chaotic and often want to find a way out of the problem. If the husband is not good enough  to take care the  heart feeling or his wife. It may be a third person would take the opportunity to get involved, if the third person of the family  then strain relations will arise between wives and husbands, and even worse if the third person is another guy as a friend or peer office mate  then will happen the feeling of expressions  sympathy to a friend who is exposed to the pressure, if not controlled noticed can happen act of love and finally hitching a low ebb going relationship between husband and wife, and if allowed to persist can play havoc with the household.

Thus the husband as a leader in the household lead should always be concerned about the problems and pressures faced by the wife and try to address as soon as possible and in a short time. If action is taken by the husband at all times to maintain household harmony and Happy Family  can be materialized.

4.       Husband  should help  wife to ease housework:

The husband should go down and 'bercawat Kote' to equally help the wife at home, especially on weekends and public holidays. If on weekdays wife struggled to work in preparing the home such as cooking, cleaning the floor, clothing and cleaning home for family comfort. Once on the weekend  the husband should helped to  assist wife doing housework . This action  is a form of cooperation that will cheer his wife. If the husband does not know  cooking,  He still can help the wife cooking a  simple menu like  fried fish or eggs. Let us see how the joy of the wife when eating food prepared by her husband.

5.       Always Remember Important Dates:

Being human instincts like valued and praised, if the husband made ​​a surprise by giving a gift to his wife on important dates such as birthdays, wedding anniversary, Mother's Day, etc., how happy his wife. This can strengthen the ties of affection and love for the wife to the husband. For this event dose not have to give precious gift, It’s acceptable   by giving a bunch of  flower or a greeting card, but if the  husband is  a rich person, it is better to  give a   privileged gift to his wife..

Such practices will have a profound impact on instinct wife. Love and loving wife to her husband will become strong and accurate. This situation is especially helpful in building  Happy Family.

6.         Vocation With Wife:

It is usual for the husband to leave his wife for having outstation duty. Every once bring your wife to rest at vacation spots and resorts. When a husband and wife with a break in the Famous Spots: You will express such joy to the wife as the husband and wife appreciate all your hard work in doing household chores. 

This holiday will also give confidence to the wife that her husband had a responsibility to his wife and family. When the husband is out of work for a few days, she did not have feelings of jealousy or suspicion. Such an atmosphere can strengthen the relationship of husband and wife each time.

7.       Kissing To Wife:

Let us ask ourselves how often we are sending kisses wife resting because of fatigue after doing homework. If she said is often done, then we are a husband loving and responsible. If the answer has not been done or not been done, then we need to make immediate changes to do so. Do we know that either the husband kiss on the forehead or around the lips while the wife rest will be able to get rid of the wife feeling tired. Such is the  magic   power  husband kisses his wife.

8.       Fulfill The  Wife Need:                 

Husband and wife must foster openness in discussing family issues. Open discussion with you wife to solve family problem, when a wife to express an opinion should be heard by husband, and implemented opinion of your wife if it's a good opinion and practical. Always talk with wife for the family plan in the future. Give a chance to the wife to equally contribute an idea no matter what education back ground her is.

If the wife is often given the opportunity to express an opinion, it  will make her more mature and confident in solving family problems. At certain times in the absence of her husband at home,  and if there is  a tricky problem his wife  can  make the right decision in finding a solution.

9.       Give Praise To The Wife:

The practice of giving praise to your  wife, such as praising her beauty and neatness’ It is an act that can raise the spirit of his wife. Kudos husband made ​​every time to renew the feelings of love and affection to the husband and wife. Praise is more  meaningful to wife when it was showing signs of decline and her age is increasingly.

10, Fulfil the Wish of Wife:

Not all wishes of our wife can be fulfilled by the husband. However, not all legitimate wife requires great expense to do so. Sometimes just looking for a husband and wife wish for holiday or just stay at home with her for a day, that's all. If a caring husband occasionally when there is a demand from your wife to stay with her for the whole day.  The wife will be happy when the husband can fulfilled  her wish.  She felt she was appreciated and loved by husband. This will enhance the loving nature of  wife to her husband. The extremely good relationship between husband and wife is one of important factors to achieve the goal of a Happy Family.